“I don’t know” is a phrase of true liberation. It is a surrendering and even smiling to Mystery. It is the call to stop endlessly searching. But in a world where we praise certainty, control and results, “I don’t know” is viewed as a sign of weakness.
When a teenager admits they “don’t know” what they want to do after graduation, they are met by fearful parents who only picture the negative if they don’t follow whatever “path” they claim to be the best….As if “knowing” meant security or results or any real control over life at all.
When “I don’t know” can be admitted with confidence, honesty and humor, the search for self, career and vocation begins to be found in LIVING EXPERIENCES, not making judgments or calculations from a distance.
You don’t make, plan or choose a life, you live one. Live in the “I don’t know” and be surprised everyday.